Saturday, January 06, 2007
Saturday Photo Hunt - Memory



Visiting with my sister-in-law.
She had MS (Multiple Sclerosis) and was hospitalized the last 10 years of her life. She died in November 2004 in her early forties.


We got the call that she had died on the weekend that my husband was doing his Fourth Degree for the Knights of Columbus. We were at the dinner dance at the time and had to leave promptly to head out of town.


It was kind of unexpected because although she was ill with her MS and suffered from numerous infections, many of which had been life threatening before, she always pulled through. This particular time, my MIL hadn't called us to say my SIL was ill so we were surprised when we got the call on his cell phone that evening.

The KoC did a special inauguration ceremony for my husband that night before we left, knowing that he would not be able to attend the next day, but under the agreement that he would participate in the inauguration at the ceremony again the following year (which he did, he is second from the right).


My beautiful niece is studying to be a dental assistant. She was 15 at the time of her Mom's death.

And what was your memory?



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posted by Irish Church Lady :) @ 8:12 AM  
29 ppl had things to say:
  • At 12:55 AM, Blogger Dianne said…

    How nice of you to remember your sister in the photo hunt this weekend. You all looked very close.

     
  • At 1:05 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    What a touching story yet bittersweet memory. Everyone looks so happy just to be together. Very nice tribute to her.

    My memory is here.

     
  • At 1:13 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Bittersweet memories. Aren't you so thankful for pictures?

    Come visit my memory. :)

     
  • At 1:41 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Thanks for sharing these precious memories with us. These are definitely special. Great choice for the hunt and a fitting tribute to someone special.

     
  • At 2:54 AM, Blogger Unknown said…

    ICL - Such great choices! Thanks a lot for sharing these special and bittersweet memories!
    San

    P.S.: Please visit my Hunt - Thanks a lot =)

     
  • At 5:03 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    What a great collection of photos and memories.

     
  • At 5:43 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Oh, bitter-sweet memories... But the photo of you all visiting your sister is such a happy one! And your niece is beautiful...

    Mine's up.

     
  • At 5:47 AM, Blogger Leesa said…

    What a memory. Great photos to remember by :)

     
  • At 6:24 AM, Blogger LibertyBelle said…

    That is so sad.
    But a beautiful tribute too.
    Happy Saturday
    Mine's up too
    L

     
  • At 7:14 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Hello there ICL
    What a beautiful tribute to a sister who will be sadly missed. So sorry for your loss.
    Thanks for sharing!
    Fiffi

     
  • At 8:30 AM, Blogger Unknown said…

    Such a nice memory. My only brother-in-law has MS and is in a very bad way. In ten years he's gone from being an active, vital person to almost a vegetative condition. He can't speak or move anymore. It's just so sad to see him. You understand all this.

    You know, we wage wars and spend tons of money trying to keep the world "safe" from terrorism, yet we still can't figure out a way to cure diseases like MS. So in some ways the world is a better place, in some ways it's not.

    It's mind-boggling to me.

    Cheers (and btw, mine is up now too.)

    C.

     
  • At 8:38 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    A sweet way to remember your SIL. You and Poolboy look terrific in the photos. :)

     
  • At 8:55 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Sad and happy memory! Great tribute to your sister-in-law!
    Mine is up! Happy Saturday!

     
  • At 9:05 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Some wonderful, wonderful memories....but bittersweet to be sure.

    A fabulous way to remember her and share you love for her with us all.

    Mine's posted.

     
  • At 9:11 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    A combination of both happy and sad family memories. Much like life always is. Very nice tribute.
    Mine is up also.

     
  • At 9:56 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    A sad memory, but one that is clearly associated with love and happiness.

    Mine's up.

     
  • At 10:50 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Such a sad memory but a beautiful picture to hold the memory. Mine is up too at http://beckie-photoblog.blogspot.com

     
  • At 11:25 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    You look like a very close family/couple. That's the best thing to remember!

     
  • At 11:30 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    That's sad that you lost your Mother in Law, I hope that they can find a cure for MS soon, one of my childhood friends was diagnosed with it.

    Your niece is very beautiful, I wish her the best of luck. She is sitting next to a very handsome poodle too :)

     
  • At 1:14 PM, Blogger srp said…

    What a lovely woman she must have been to have raised such a beautiful daughter.

     
  • At 1:17 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    I'm so sorry about your sister. It's wonderful that you have fond memories of her...

     
  • At 1:29 PM, Blogger Biker Betty said…

    Sorry to hear about your sister-in-law. That is a great picture of her with everyone. She looks like she really enjoyed the visit. Her daughter is beautiful and I hope all is going well with her dental assisting. Have a nice weekend.

     
  • At 2:10 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    This is the second bittersweet memory I've read in a row. All our memories are tied together, the good with the sad.

    check out mine from 1975. :-)
    http://sliceofjennyslife.blogspot.com/

     
  • At 3:33 PM, Blogger PowersTwinB said…

    what a lovely way to remember your sister in law, I am sure you miss her every day! I just posted my 1st Saturday photo hunt pix, and am new to blogging,would love to have you visit!

     
  • At 5:43 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    I'm sorry about your sister-in-law. She was obviously loved.

    Mine's up too :)

     
  • At 5:53 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    What a beautiful tribute. Thank you for sharing a memory so close to your heart.

     
  • At 8:42 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Thats a lovely tribute.

    I played too.

    http://photogfrog.livejournal.com/

     
  • At 2:50 PM, Blogger MaR said…

    You all look so happy in that pic nobody could tell the sad story behind your SIL being ill.
    Sorry about this loss. Very nice tribute to remember her for "memory"

     
  • At 11:39 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Thank you for sharing these memories that are close to your heart. The stories behind those photos are very touching. Sorry for dropping by late this week.

    Mine is also up. Take care!

     
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